Say it once

i deactivated my ig. i’ve been thinking a lot, and i think i need to say this properly, at least once. i don’t think i ever asked for a lot from you. not long replies, not constant attention. just… basic things. acknowledgment. presence. something that lets me know i matter, even a little. and when that doesn’t come, especially after i’ve shown up, it hurts more than i expected it to. i realised it’s not just about one message or one day. it’s the pattern. how i keep feeling like i’m the one holding more, thinking more, caring more. and i don’t think i can keep doing that to myself. this isn’t me blaming you or asking you to change. i just think this is how you are, and i have to accept that. but i also have to be honest with myself about what i need. and right now, this doesn’t feel good for me anymore. i don’t want to keep reaching out and wondering if i matter. i don’t want to keep feeling affected by silence like this. so i’m going to take a step back. not out of anger, but because i need to protect my own peace a bit. you don’t have to respond to this. i’m not expecting anything. i just needed to say it once, clearly.